Thursday, March 19, 2009

Life is like this !!

have learned: that you cannot make someone love you.all you can do is be someone who can be loved. the rest is upto them. that its not what u have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. it may be the last time u see them. that just because someone doesnt' love you the way u want them to doesn't mean they dont love u with all they have. that no matter how much i care, some people just dont care back.

I have learned: that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do. that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.that our background , and circumstances may have influenced who we are,but we are responsible for who we become. that either you control your attitude or it controls you. that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesnt't stop for your grief.

I ve learned: that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.That it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. thats it isnt't always enough to be forgiven by others. sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself...

i've learned:that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up. that sometimes when i'm angry i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

i've learned:That maturity has more to do with what yo've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays's you've celebrated.

: that my best friend and i can do anything or nothing, and have the best time,. thast no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and u must forgive them for that. that we dont have to change friends, if we understand that friends change. . that 2 people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

that your life can be changed in a matter of hours who dont't even know you..

1 comment:

honey said...

seems that u r going thru a rough patch of life... watever u have wrote is fair enuf...but just remember that u dont become so negative that u lose ur individuality because of things happened to u. Never let circumstances rule your life bcos if u does then u r no more than a mere puppet and u will then cry whenever circumstances change and d change isnt according to ur expecatations